Hey everyone,
So I(23) dated this guy(26) last year for about 2 months, it was never official, but we had great chemistry and had a lot of fun together. He ended it with me and I was upset about it for awhile but ultimately did not have hard feelings toward him.
Fast forward to now, he contacted me out of nowhere wanting to catch up to which I said yes because I did miss what we had and thought it would be fun to see him again. We’ve been hanging out about once a week the past month, doing date-type things- hiking, going out for dinner, cooking together, etc. and yes, also sex.
I know that during the past year he was with a girl seriously (the reason he dumped me the first time I’m pretty sure) so I have been a little hesitant about what he’s doing here. So I did finally ask him where his head was at the last time we hung out. He said he was still getting over his relationship and not looking for something serious but agreed we’ve been having a lot of fun and told me to think about it. He said he feels guilty, but I told him he doesn’t have to feel guilty, I know what I’m getting myself into.
So, now I need to decide if I just cut him off and let him figure his shit out, or continue to see him and keep things lowkey. It’s so hard to turn away because we have such a good connection when we are together. I know if the breakup was fresh for him, he’s probably just rebounding, but he seems like he genuinely cares about me too? He has bought me dinner, is very affectionate, etc. Dating during this pandemic is nearly impossible, so it’s nice to have the connection even if it’s just something casual. But I’m torn on what to do.
What do you guys think of casual relationships? Is it worth it to just enjoy the fun while it lasts or is it just more pain in the long run?
TL;DR: I’ve been hanging out and hooking up with a guy who just got out of a relationship and don’t know if I should cut him off or continue spending time with him.
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