Hello all, I have a few questions about interactions at the gym between men and women. A little pretext, The current pandemic has made it pretty difficult to meet people in our 'natural' setting. Most people, including me really only see other people at work, the store, in some cases the gym, or on online dating (which is wildly unbalanced). I visit the gym for 2.5 hours a day 3-4 days a week.
Let's say I'm objectively a very attractive man, if you find black men attractive, I often notice women in the gym constantly glancing toward me, hovering around areas I'm working out, even sometimes even outright staring at inappropriate places (just to name a few instances of quasi-positive body language). The general consensus is that the gym is a terrible place for flirting, even more so looking at someone while they're working out. I used to feel very uncomfortable when women would look at me when I work out, so I began going to the gym at midnight.
Since the pandemic brought various schedule changes, I have now returned to working out during crowded hours. With it returned the glancing. I now find myself wondering if I can use this to my advantage given our current circumstances?
If there is a woman or women that I consistently see seeing me in the gym? Would it be okay if I hit on them? Why so? Why not? What signaling do you feel i should specifically look for, if it is okay?
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