So I haven't been in a relationship (or even dated) for the past 4 years of my life. I'm a single father, I work full time, own a house, cook, clean, have lots of interests, friends, am decent looking...and yet...every time I talk to a girl I end up ruining it. A girl will become attracted to me, and we start to talk, and somehow I say or do something that causes them to lose interest. Sometimes they disappear, sometimes they'll tell me they're into me, but then when I show interest and want to get to know them better, it's over. Obviously I'm doing something wrong. I try and put my finger on it but I think it just comes down to my personality. I highlight my achievements because I'm insecure. I desire closeness at too early a stage (even if I space out the texting and phone calls as much as possible). I have lost my ability to control these things and I make these mistakes time and time again. At an old age (older than most dating) I have major baggage and my prospects have dwindled down to ex's who want me back but whom I have no desire for. I see an old guy living across the street who lives alone and I can't help but think it will be me someday.
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