My gf and I are 20. Her initial reasons for not wanting to lose her v with me is in fear that I’m “not the one”. Now that we’re approaching that 2 year mark her main reasons are bc she wants to end up nothing like her parents. She’s always been surrounded by her parents making poor decisions and having multiple partners which led to having many neglected children. Other reasons include pregnancy scare and the fact that the both of us are currently at an age where we should be doing everything we possibly can to secure our future. She works very hard every single day and she’s afraid that by losing our v that sex would be something she can’t stop thinking about which would hurt her work. I’ve never pressured her into sex, and I honestly have no problem waiting it just sucks bc she wants to have sex just as much as I do. And with social media, movies, etc. I can’t help but look at other couples and feel like I’m missing a very huge part of a relationship. I’ve tried reasoning with her and telling her that she is nothing like her parents which is true. It is crazy that she’s nothing like them despite growing up surrounded by that all her life. The most we’ve ever done is oral and using a condom to rub our p and v against each other. After we ever do anything she always tells me how much she wants to just do it but all of these thoughts run through her head telling her no. Any advice would be much appreciated. Please do not tell me to leave this woman she is an absolute angel, the old me probably would’ve left due to no sex but I know that she’s priceless and is the one for me. Is there anything I can tell her to ease her nerves, or are my only options are to wait until she’s ready.
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