Has anyone gone through this? I recently started hooking up with my ex again. It was hot and passionate but we still haven’t surpassed some of our problems so it didn’t last. I realized during this reconciliation that I don’t love him anymore, but for the longest I confused my attraction for his face and body and physical touch with love and longing. I’m just now acknowledging that just because I’m sexually attracted to someone, it doesn’t mean I love them. I’m demisexual so I usually can only be sexually aroused by someone I love or like a lot.
My ex and I are both going through a fitness journey. He’s not ripped by any means, actually slightly overweight and so am I. But we’re both going to the gym to build muscle and eventually become very fit. The idea of my ex being extremely muscular, eating healthy, being stronger, and having more focus and dedication to something makes me feel dread. I feel bad saying this but I’m scared of him getting better. Its been 2 years since we broke up and we both haven’t completely moved on, and the idea of him being super hot (I keep imagining him leaning with abs and being all sweaty) makes me feel like I’ll always be stuck on him.
That’s what I’m scared of, being forever stuck on him.
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