... how well should you match with each other? When do you go for a relationship? What counts most for you in your partner?
M 27 searching for advice and opinions on how and when one starts a relationship.
I rarely fall in love. And starting a relationship for me is never this "it just happened" but rather a over and over thought decision. I start thinking that i have commitment issues and feel that i have a strong fear of being left (due to divorced parents?)
Background story: been into several dating situations in which I get to know a girl. Quite attracted to her. Start liking her. but after dating for like 1-3 months I find myself in the situation that something is missing or just doesn't fit. Often I just do not develop the strong feelings that make me want to be in a relationship or share a future. Then I end things and hurt her. I do not want to cause any more pain in other's and frustration in myself. I'm sick of it!
And I know there is no perfect match but feel like I'm just not commited if i do not resonate enough with the other person in aspects like (sexual) attraction, worldview, lifestyle etc...
Right now i am dating this girl and she is really cute, we have good sex and a nice time but Im afraid to hurt her cause I feel like we don't fit. her being and world (lifestyle, friends) is very ordered and calm and mine is too chaotic and crazy and I often just don't feel the thrills. So i wonder if I should continue and give us a chance and progress into a relationship or part from her and move on ...
Please I really don't know what to do -.-
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