Been dating a girl for 3 months. Initially we were seeing each other all day everyday on the weekends, basically attached at the hip, went on weekend trips together, etc. I have never had a girl be so into me.
Then after 2 months she started to pull away. She still wanted to date other people. I said it was cool and we kept on hanging out. We said we wouldn't sleep with anyone else or else we would break things off.
She went on a trip a month ago and she still contacted me a couple times a week but that slowly faded and I still call her once a week usually.
I was planning on giving her the benefit of the doubt and seeing her when she got back. But then she extended her trip for another 2 weeks without letting me know. I also said I could come and visit her earlier on in the trip if she wanted but she never mentioned it.
I'm just not putting up with the lack of effort and interest on her part anymore and am going to move on, even though I still have some feelings for her, I also have standards.
Should I just let it fade or explicitly let her know I am going to move onto other women? We talked about not sleeping with other people but still dating around so I feel maybe I should let her know? At the same time it feels like it's showing I care more than her, which at this point if I'm being honest I probably do, and also looks like I'm trying to show that I don't really care (but I really have started to seriously lose interest). At the same time, I feel like it would give me closure since a part of me still really cares for her.
What should I do here?
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