I am a 22 year old male, and a day has not gone by in my life where I have not thought about finding someone. Whenever I am attracted to someone at all, I immediately idealize them. When they reject me I act as if I was rejected by the person who I idealized rather than who they are which leads to massive hits to my self esteem. Even if someone occasionally shows interest, I never know how to act leading to awkward interactions and them losing interest. I am trying to constantly distract myself with hobbies and focusing on other things like my degree, but all it takes is one walk across campus coming across cute girls and there I am thinking about it again. I just want to be able to be happy on my own and not care what these girls think about me, but It seems I just cant do it and am out of answers.
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