Im 18(f), almost 19, and i never had a first kiss, a boyfriend or anything beyond that. I was really socially awkward, shy and self concious growing up so i never really had experience or interest in boys. I gained confidence in the past few years and ive been on a couple of dates but it never really went anywhere. Everytime i would talk to a guy and id start to get nervous if things get serious and he tries to make a move on me, since i literally dont even know how to kiss. The scary thing for me also is that a lot of guys my age now probably expect to have sex with their girlfriends quickly and i never even had any intimate interactions with a man besides a hug or a kiss on the cheek. I literally turned down several kisses because i would always chicken out they would notice i dont know shit. My question is, are guys put off by girls like me that literally have 0 experience. I dont want to sound snobby, but i find myself attractive and assertive and people never believe me when i tell them ive never had my first kiss. Is it smarter to pretend to have experience or should i tell a guy right away that i have no idea what i am doing?
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