I’m 20. I feel old to be virgin, but not because I feel pressured, but because I’ve explored soo much with toys (possibly more than those who have sex regularly), and am just very horny constantly.
I have Tinder just to pass time and I met this extremely good looking man there. He’s 25. He took me out, we met and he was very gentlemanly and chill. We clicked. However there are signs he might only be looking for hookups, which I think is 99% true.
Here I have a guy I’d definitely fuck immediately if I wasn’t a virgin.
I’m just scared of getting traumatized, because I know guys don’t care much about the woman’s pleasure it they don’t know her well. On the other hand, I don’t want to get to know him too well, cause then I might get attached and develop a crush.
My biggest fear is though that he will ghost me after sex, which shouldn’t be that bad If I haven’t developed a crush. But if we don’t know each other well, the sex won’t probably be mind blowing either.
I’m in college so most guys are also looking for hookups. COVID makes it difficult to form good friendships with any guys as school is online, and as I said I’d like some action but am still doubtful.
What should I do? My friends say the first time isn’t magical like it seems & I’ll never feel 100% ready with any decisions I make (that I can confirm, I always hesitate).
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