I've been on a few dates as I'm starting this chapter of my life and they always lean in for a kiss..I don't like it. Is this normal or am I just too guarded?

Is this normal? I do not like kissing at all if I don't know you and it just feels like a fake display of love after only one date. Maybe 3 or 4 dates in but otherwise, can I just have a hug? Maybe it's cause either was raised to be told I love you after a kiss but am I weird in not wanting to kiss until we get actually close to eachothers heart? I'd legit rather have sex or oral before a kiss. Idk why I tense up so much they make me feel so..idk. just don't like it.

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