So, looking back at old text w/ my ex (w/ narcissistic tendencies at least what was discovered via therapy) I realized HOW immature I was. And in the moment I didn’t realize just how immature I was too.
It doesn’t take away from his asshole behavior. He broke up with me in 2018 (I was 24 and he was 32). And I reread those messages this past week, and cringed at my immaturity driven by my insecurities. He broke up with me after a poorly handled argument on my end, to which he stated he couldn’t come back from my demeanor. His method of breaking up was ghosting me vs telling me we were over. That hurt a lot!
But, I was so stuck on the pain that I was wasn’t objective with the error of my ways! I was stuck on how he hurt me, I didn’t see where I erred too.
And re-reading the message I just can’t believe that was me!!! I’ve absolutely matured and grown since then. But, holy cow. Such a realization to have.
What did you learn?
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