I’m a 25 year old guy and I haven’t been in a relationship. I’ve tried my best to improve myself and be more attractive. Ten years ago I liked to stay home and play video games instead of socializing. I was told to get out of my shell and I’d meet someone. In that time period I’ve been in high school and college; I’ve gone out to football games, hung out with some lady friends of mine outside of school ( I liked a couple of them but they never liked me), gone to Meetups, exercised regularly, tried dance classes, tried dating apps, tried approaching people on campus, read several self help books, constantly put myself in uncomfortable situations to desensitize myself, gone to therapy and taken different types of antidepressants. I did all of this while battling a speech impediment, social anxiety, sweating profusely, and having depressive episodes. I explained this in several posts and someone said “Congrats, you’re doing the bare minimum.” God. Fucking. Dammit.
People have needlessly insulted me instead of actually being helpful so I’m ready to give up on life. I don’t see why I should keep putting in all this effort, more effort than most other guys have to in order to be accepted, if it’s not good enough for anyone in the end. I don’t know if anyone truly gives a fuck about me, but I’m willing to take advice. I’m at the end of my rope here and I don’t know what to do. Why are my best efforts not good enough?
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