Why would a girl be very cautious around me saying " if you just want to use me then leave because that's not gonna happen." She had a bad experience with her ex. Her ex used her and would blackmail her if she didn't do stuff for him, like showing photos of her in public and stuff. BUT

Even though I am not interested I just looked back at it and found it odd that she was pretty cautious around me yet when we stopped talking after I did something that reminded her of her ex. This other guy she was all over him and dated him while we planned a date but it never happened. I once tried to talk to her and she was ignoring me and I was telling her about something and said that she doesn't even know me and she threw it to my face that "oh yeah, by the way we are dating." And also how she has been looking at me for almost 2 months and now has been very distant with her boyfriend saying she "needs time alone." But still catch her looking at me. Was she trying to make me jealous at first?

Or did she change or mind because I don't want to date her at all. Maybe FWB but that's the farthest I will do. No boyfriend or girlfriend thing.

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