We met on Tinder, early 20s. There were quite a few “red flags” that communicated to me that his intentions were purely sexual. Like, - shirtless selfies on sn*p - only surface level conversations - trying to get me to his house as quick as possible (I declined the first date there but was fine with 2nd date being at his place) - and a sexual joke that he made to test the waters before inviting me over.
Before me going over to his place, he told me that “sex isn’t the only thing on his mind”. I knew he was lying - a guy wouldn’t even had to tell me that if it wasn’t so.
I was fine with casual - we had sex, I enjoyed it, but as you can imagine, his interest and texting rate dropped down after that meetup.
I’m fine personally, but I’m worried about the girls that fall for these men that can’t be straightforward about their intentions and lie in order to get sex out of her. The way he talked to me and asked about my life and kept the conversation going would’ve easily made me believe that he’s not only after the kitty-cat, if I was less experienced and/or younger. I would’ve just thought that he found me so “special” and liked me and was comfortable with me.
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