Hello!
I have been talking to someone for about a month and we have gone on 4 dates. Things seem to be going really well. She is not the best texter and that doesn’t bother me, but still being fairly new to each other, it doesn’t ease my nerves at times like this.
The other day we had a date that felt as magical as it could get. Met her friends, had a blast, she had a good time and specifically told me she was happy that I was there. We leave, embrace in the rain, make probable plans to meet next week. When I get home I send a text thanking her for the great night and reflected on how I really enjoyed meeting her friends and the whole event we went to together. I didn’t hear back from her which isn’t super atypical. I sent some casual text the next day and nothing. As the evening was approaching I threw out there I had some time after an event if she wanted to get ice cream or something. Wasn’t a big thing, just lowkey because she mentioned possibly being free that day. She finally responded saying sorry for the late response. Long day. That sort of stuff. That’s fine I get it! Two of my friends suggested the next day (today) seeing if she wanted to grab dinner at some time that week and given how weird things felt I listened to them and this morning threw that out there. It wasn’t a super big thing, I said I know she is busy and tired from work but just to let me know if she wanted to grab dinner at some point and also carried some of the conversation from prior, it wasn’t the whole point of the text. In hindsight, I definitely shouldn’t be asking this much in a row. I listened to what I now feel is bad advice. I haven’t heard from her. I know it hasn’t been long, but do you think this one moment is something that would push someone away? I will let her be for a little because I didn’t mean to push so much. I recognize that now but I’m sure it would be weird to text her again and to say I recognize that. I just really don’t want to mess this up, this feels like it has such potential. I wish I asked for other people’s advice first. That’s my big question: is it possible my overthinking ass messed this up or would someone not completely be turned away by me asking to hang twice in two days? I’m getting a lot of conflicting thoughts on that from people and I know that nobody can truly know, but I just want to hear what people think. Thanks for your thoughts!
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