Hi, I would really appreciate if you guys could give me some advice regarding this girl I've been friends with well over 1.5 years till date.
So I met ZZZ at a friends birthday party and we really hit it off very well and exchanged numbers and texted each other and eventually started having our own conversation rather involving our common friend.
Like things went so great at first that we became really close friends and met each other on multiple occasions after that party, nothing physical but the usual two friends hanging around and stuff. It was pretty evident that the friendship was very solid as not day went by when we didn't text/call each other to check-up on each other or go out together.
In mid 2021 I went back to my college in another city while she was still in our hometown that we kind of started to drift apart but still made sure to call/text each other. Later I developed a crush on her and hoped that we could move beyond just being friends and I told her about my feelings before Valentine's Day over the phone to which she was very surprised because it came out so sudden and out of the blue. After taking good 2-3 days she texted me saying "I don't feel that way and would really hope that our friendship isn't hindered because of this"
I totally respected her decision and didn't do anything obnoxious to make her feel uncomfortable. So after her text in which she said no to me and wanted to remain friends with me she hasn't really texted/called me neither replied to my texts and currently I'm back in our hometown and really want to you know just talk to her but it seems like she just doesn't wanna talk to me anymore after I had explicitly told her that it's just a crush and it'll go away and I don't wanna ruin our friendship.
I'm at this point sitting at my parent's house waiting for her to contact me but it seems like I ruined a great friendship and don't think she'll ever wanna talk to me.
Please help me guys what can be done by me or should I just wait for her to take her time.
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