For some context: I'm 16M, she's 15F. She asked me out a few weeks ago. She said she loved me 2 days after we started dating. I panicked and said it back in the moment, but later I explained to her what love is and that you don't develop that feeling in two days and stuff. She would also say stuff like "I want to be with you forever" and "Please don't ever break my heart"(these are also less than a week into the relationship). Again, I explained to her that we just met a week ago, that we don't know each other at all and that we're basically strangers, so we shouldn't rush into anything this fast and that we should get to know each other first.
And now that I've got to know her, I've realised that we don't really have anything in common and we're just not clicking.
So this is what I've come up with to say to her rn: First I'm gonna let her know that I have something important to tell her and get her to stay back after school. Then I'm gonna say: "Hi, I really like you, but I don't think this will work out long term. We don't really have anything in common. I like to play games, you don't. You like Cars, I don't know anything about them. I'm not saying they're important, what I'm trying to say is that we're completely different people. Do you really see a future with this? If I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with a person, it has gotta be someone I can relate to and have fun with, like a best friend. Do you think we would be best friends if we weren't dating? If you don't, then I don't think we should be dating. This is not because of you or because of me. You're a great person. It's just that we're not right for each other. I hope you'll find someone who can be your best friend and lover." I'm also gonna give her a bar of dark chocolate cuz she really like dark chocolate.
Is there anything I can do better? This is a very sensitive person. For example, when I was first trying to explain why I didn't love her 2 days into the relationship, the first thing she asked me was "were you like this with your ex too?". So I really want to avoid that type of reaction this time.
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