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Tuesday, October 30, 2018

Friends, or more?

Hi guys!

Feel stupid to write here tonight.. But need some advices!

I met this boy, on social media! He just wrote me to ask me a question about my work (not even to flirt or anything, I dont have any photos of my face on my media), and bam! The conversation started and we talked for about 2 weeks everyday. We got along, had a lot of things to share and had a lot of fun. He invited me just to go take a walk... So we've met on an aftertnoon... The first time I saw him, I was like OH crap! What have I done! He did'nt talk so much and he had a hard time look at me, he was pretty shy, so I clearly thought he was interested. Got kinda stressed out and I talked a lot just to shot the silence... After one hour, he started open up, we had fun, but not more... I told myself, clearly it'll be the last date with him. I told him after 3 hours I should leave, but he insisted for me to stay longer and offer me the ride back home (don't have a car)... I was clearly thinking he would drop me at my place, and boom, no more news from him...

I was wrong, since then he'd always make time for me (it's been 2 months now)...

Now, at the 3rd time we saw each other... I was asking him what was his biggest lifestuggle... He kept silence and started being nervous. He told me, I cannot hide anything from you, I'm scared of what you will think, but there's this girl, a friend of mine, that I had a crush before meeting you. I've been telling her my feelings, she told me she likes me but she's already with someone else... And the truth, she bearly care for him. blablabla... He told me he did'nt want to use me as a rebound and he did'nt not tell anyone this secret except his bestfriend... He felt he needed to tell me cause he felt a special connexion with me and did'nt know WHY... He told me he did'nt expect to be that way between him and me and felt we were weirdly bounding fast... He told me he had more things in common with me then her... But since he was mix in that story with that girl (that he is actually working with her, we'll..... he did'nt want to go further with me before everything was really conclude with me. He wanted to know if I was looking our activities as dates our just friendly meeting... And to be honest, I'm the kinda girl who's scared to be in relationships so I told him I understood everything he was feeling (cauz I lived a similar thing with another guy last year) and I would rather stay friend with him and just give him some time...

So weeks past by and we did'nt miss to see each other every weeks... Finally, once again, we might have step a little further on our conversation so he told me he still was'nt ready but felt something with me... He asked me how I felt about it and told be that he was living a hard time with that girl...

Finally, he decided to cut bridge with that girl and quite his jobs so he would'nt have to see her anymore cause he felt like it was hopless with her and she just wanted to take adventage of him so he got really hurt... And then 2 week after, he started ask me if I would like to meet his friends, get along with them, start listen to movie with him and blablabla... He invited me at his place... We listen to a movie without even get closer... And the next day, he texted me to tell me if I would be interested to like cuddle with him sometimes, without getting anything more... (I'm the kinda girl who believes in God, practice and don't want anything before mariage, he know that and since the start he told me he respected that) But cuddling his kinda "okay" in my optic so I told him it might be risky to catch some more feelings... He told me he did'nt want to go any further and told me it would just be benefics for the 2 of us if I was confortable for that...

So we did it last weekend... he asked me how I felt about it and told be, if your only doing that for me I want you to stop... I dont want to force you in anything of that... If your feeling good about it that's great...

The principal things I'm concluding :

He's just been out of a "heartbreak"

He's going on a trip for 2 months in japan

But he told me the last time we saw, well, sooner or later I'll get to meet your parents. (Wait, what, why ?) I started giggling and I was like, hmm no thanks haha... And he was like, haha why ?

Other thing, when he asked me to be a "cuddle friend" (I dont think he even know that this exist lol) well I told him, to the time it will work, why not? I mean, it's not like were gonna end up being together right, so why not... And he was like saying nothing and thinking...

I don't know if he's intersted or just spending time with me to change his mind to have fun and forget his breakup or what... I don't know if he's making all that up. I'm perplexe cauz I drives me home everytime and he's making plan so that we see each other more often... What should I think ?

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