I have been with my GF for quite a while. She is 21 while I am 25. I support her financially and help her with bills in school. We are planning to move in together soon. However this trust is all going away after she tells me and asks if she can share a bed with other guys.
She is planning a trip to NYC with her high school friends that will be a week. They are staying at her friends place who goes to school out there. This is not a problem. However the problem is that it will be 8 people in a 2 bedroom apartment for the week. 4 people live in the apartment and she and her three friends are going out there. She said the sleeping arrangements would be her sharing a twin bed bed with another male friend for the week. I know this guy, and he is a friend of mine and a good guy but this still makes me very uneasy. Sharing a single bed is very intimate and contact will occur. I told her this was distressing for me but I would think about it.
However a big arguement occured when I came home from work. I had to work until noon one day but got off a bit early and arrived back home at 8 am. She and another guy were sharing the bed at my home. She was topless and the guy had his shirt off. I stayed calm and told the guy he had 30 seconds to leave before he gets hurt. He was only wearing boxers when he left and sprinted out of there. My GF said nothing happened and they both got super drunk and felt unsafe walking home alone. She said they must have gotten hot in the middle of the night and took of there clothes. I said nothing and calmly grabbed her keys and took off my spare house key and spare car key. I calmy but seriously said get out... now.
She started to cry and begged and insisted nothing happened, but i said nothing and she finally left. What do I do? She is beautiful young and I love her with all my heart, but I feel betrayed. Am i overeacting?
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