First girlfriend: freshmen year of college. She was beautiful, super out of my league and i was the happiest man on earth for a while. Turns out we had nothing in common and she became very emotionally abusive. She made me cut off contact with my old friends, made me stop participating in my hobbies, and constantly reminded me that she was out of my league and was basically doing me a favor by dating me. Destroyed my self confidence. Broke it off after 9 months.
Second Girlfriend: one of my best friends and roommate (we were roommates before dating). At first was great because I was literally dating my best friend. After a while she began to use me for money and to do all of her daily chores (taking care of her dog, cleaning the apt) while she was out with friends. Lasted 6 months before she broke it off and turned most of our friend group against me. Hit rock bottom for a while (or so i thought)
Third girlfriend: Great girl who I got along with very well. The only problem was I constantly caught her lying about little things. She was very promiscuous in her early college years and I caught her talking to guys a lot, which wasn't a problem except for the fact that she would get super defensive about it for no reason. Eventually some of the messages became suspicious. She swore it was nothing. I believed her because aside from when I caught her lying, we had a great relationship. Welp after 14 months she randomly left me for some guy she met at a bar a couple weeks prior. I also found out she had cheated on me with (at least) 3 different people throughout our relationship. The cheating began a couple months after we started dating when I moved home (only 90 minutes away) just for the summer because my mom was going through chemotherapy. This destroyed my trust in anyone and made me feel like no one would ever want me.
So here I am 3 years later wanting to date again, but I can't. I have trouble trusting others plus I feel like no girl would ever want me. I just see people posting about their significant others and how in love they are with that person and I just cannot believe that someone would ever feel that way about me. Any advice on how to get over this hump?
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