Does anyone else avoid relationships because they don't want to disappoint others with their personality?

For a long time I've been telling myself I need to "work on myself" as is the ubiquitous advice, that you should "be the person you want to date". But I'm so boring/lazy/insecure that I doubt I'll ever get there.

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