Hi there, I'm kind of in a weird place so if anyone's up for some shrinking time on me I'm down for it.
So recently I started rampaging on tinder a bit after many failures over the years, I never had any relationships, only dates and I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever fall for someone. I mean, I had crushes so I've been attracted to guys before but it never lasted, as soon as I got my crush's attention it always went away.
I went on three dates over the last week and while one isn't even worth mentioning, the other two went great.
The second one was actually kind of amazing. I went to the guy's place and we had an easy flow and we kind of clicked. I could be 100% myself and that's something rare isn't it? But I was more attracted by this connexion rather than physical attraction. It left me weird cause it was cool to be able to talk about everything I like and get interesting answers and vice-versa but what if I'm not attracted enough physically?
So I thought maybe the third one will help me through. It was nice too, but it wasn't like the second where it was just an awesome conversation. I mean, it went well and the guy was also nice looking but I also don't feel any strong attraction. So in the end it didn't help.
They both want to see me again and I'm thinking that maybe a 2nd date will help but what if it doesn't? What if I'm just broken and I'll never strongly feel attracted to anyone? Or can it really come with time?
It feels like I always feel a detachment to the guys I see. I don't know what's wrong with me. Is it that I never met the right person or am I just messed up?
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