For anyone that needs to hear this...don’t be too hard on yourself if someone doesn’t call you again after an “App” date...if you met someone authentically meaning out in the wild doing a hobby or at a bar...that is the exciting fuel that would make both people involved want to hang out again... it’s different with app dating. You don’t have that “real life connection” at first...that first or second date takes the place of that spontaneous connection. A month or so ago a guy I met asked me if he did anything wrong. I felt so bad Bc he didn’t do anything wrong... he was cool attractive. Idk what it was but I guess there wasn’t any chemistry. Then another time I was really feeling this other guy and I was super excited about it.. and the guy never made an attempt to hang out again meanwhile I wanted to. So it works both ways. Just take it with a grain of salt and when it’s meant to be both of you will know that it’s special enough to pursue.
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