So I actually have what could turn about to be a great story if everything works out. We literally had our first date a day before the shutdown in our city.
- First date on March 10, right before covid shutdown, amazing time and connection and a fair amount of kissing
- Second date March 18, she drives 30 or so minutes to see me and we order in dinner and drink two bottles of wine, she spends about 5 hours with me, repeat of first date, except it just gets better and a lot more kissing (nothing more), tells me she trusts me
- Third date April 4, she drives over again, pretty much repeat of date 2
- Fourth date April 15, she drives over again, I cook her dinner, another amazing time, she spent the night, we didn’t do anything, too drunk lol
Summary: every date has been damn near perfect, selling myself that she could be "the one", everything is progressing nicely, there has been great conversation but no talks of the future, she told me she trusts me on the second date, she slept over on the fourth, she is VERY attractive (imo) so she I'm sure she gets at least a handful of guys hitting on her and approaching her on a normal day.
My thoughts: So on paper, it’s all good, but I rarely ever hear from her in between dates. There could be a HUGE reason for this which is that she is a Physician’s Assistant at a major NYC hospital. So yes, she definitely gets the benefit of the doubt. When we do exchange texts, it's always very short, she doesn't really engage at all even though I try to get her to. I wouldn't have written this post a a couple weeks ago but at this point, we've had four dates so I'm a bit confused.
I just need a sanity check b/c I am going a bit insane not hearing from her and I’m not really reaching out either (unless it's to set up a date). I’m trying to give her the proper time and space but if she doesn’t hit me up then we don’t talk. I’m doing my best to just let her dictate the tempo and pace of everything. Is there anything else I need to be doing other than just letting this all play out naturally?
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