Matched with this girl on an app earlier during the quarantine and we had a few video calls and stuff. She was initially a good texter and was down to video call (even though I was the only one initiating). It seemed to be progressing decently well. However, a few weeks in I noticed she started to withdraw and started to get busier.
She told me one weekend when I asked to call that she was just tired from so many video calls and just wanted the weekend to herself. Fair enough.
Her response time for texts started to get longer though I noticed.
Then I asked to facetime the next weekend but she asked to have a regular phone call instead and didn't elaborate why. The phone call was good.
But then she slowly started dropping off. since things are reopening I asked if she wants to meet in person since I know she's been seeing a few of her friends but she made some excuse saying that she's insecure about how she looks in quarantine and wants to go to the salon first.
I asked again if she wants to hang out this weekend and she said no because she's busy this weekend but that she'd let me know.
I straight up asked her if she wants to meet up anytime soon and she said "I have a lot going on right now so I'll let you know when I'm free'
That's so obviously a lie. She didn't even specify what she has going on. Should I call her out? I'm thinking of sending her a message being like "If you don't want to see me just say so. Stop making excuses"
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