I’m a 27 year old woman who’s never been in a real, serious relationship. This is mostly due to unfortunate circumstances in life, such as caring for a terminally ill parent for 7 years after leaving high school and then becoming a shut-in who doesn’t know how to socialise at all.
But around 4 years ago, I decided to give dating a go and managed to find someone fairly nice on Tinder. We had a lot in common and really seemed to hit it off... until I told him I’ve only had sex once. At first he didn’t believe me and then I was too scared to tell him that I’ve never had a boyfriend either. I mean, most people would find it strange that I’m not a virgin but have only had sex one time and that I wasn’t in a relationship with the person I lost my virginity to.
It’s not something I like to talk about either as that one time wasn’t a nice experience, I was 18 at the time and very naive. It’s something I regret deeply.
As for general relationship stuff, I’m clueless. I don’t even know how to kiss and have never really had a proper kiss... it’s really embarrassing to admit that to people and all this stuff combined puts me off dating, in fear I’ll be rejected or ghosted again.
My question is, is this really something very off-putting to most men? And if it is, what do I do about it? I don’t want to lie and say I’ve had numerous partners or anything. Those lies would only become obvious when I don’t even know how to kiss.
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