Both in life and when stalking random reddits for funsies, it saddens me when I see women humiliating themselves to please men who couldn't care less about them because "if you don't lower your standards/put out on the 3rd date/accept non-monogamy/etc., you'll end up alone." (Obviously there are gentlemen out there who have it just as bad from the crazy bitches, but I'll stick to the female point of view because that's all I know.)
I'm alone. 30, never dated, complete virgin - partly due to insanely high standards that render me incapable of attraction to anyone I might actually meet in real life. But guess what? My life is pretty great. I enjoy my hobbies, I have a great job, and thanks to strong finances and family-friendly work hours, I'm planning to have a baby on my own in the next few years. Do I envy beautiful people who get treated like superior beings? Do I wish Prince William had married me instead of Kate? Sure, but I'm happy that I didn't force myself into traumatic intimacy with someone I had zero attraction to because I was scared of "ending up alone."
So my message would be: if you want an exclusive relationship and the guy only wants free sex, ditch him! If you get to a guy's place and he hasn't even bothered to clean the room, turn around and leave! Even if you can somehow convince him to marry and/or reproduce with you, he's never going to get any more loving or considerate about picking his own mess off the floor while you're struggling to care for an infant.
Don't let the red pill crowd win by allowing men who treat women as less than human to get laid. If a man you are involved with (even casually) is a decent person, he should want to bring you happiness instead of taking sick pleasure in how much he can get out of you while giving nothing in return. So if you're accepting that type of nonsense because you're scared of ending up alone, please remember that there are far, far worse things in life that could happen to you.
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