Is anyone else tired of non-committal relationships, asking for a friend? 🥴 I’m very selective of the men I open My time and energy towards and the one person I seem to just click and actually connect with is only into “casual relationships”. Lucky me!
I don’t rush into relationship I like to take my time and get to know someone. I like things to happen naturally. And damnit! It has with this person, we just naturally gravitate towards one another. It’s subjective but I don’t there isn’t anything wrong with me. I’m just an average women who is just trying to date. I have my own priorities, I’m not needy, Im decent looking etcetc ... at first I thought it was maybe it’s cuz I want what I couldn’t have but have a deep analysis it’s not. I genuinely feel a deep connection with this person. And I think what hurt is that fact that you think to yourself and ponder how in the world were you THAT off. I mean love makes you irrational but... I’m 30. I know what I felt and it’s so crazy to think that could it all be me or my head. And of course it does make you start to question... well what’s wrong with me then? We get on good, sex is fantastic, nothing else.... then it’s me? Yeah at end... casual relationship are just as transactional as a one night stand, you try to fill that biological social need but it only makes the hole more empty. Bating a carrot and forever chasing it.
Am I the only one? Is it because people who participate in modern dating have problems committing and this whole casual dating (it’s great in some parts of your life) but when you are ready🥴. I think it does more residual damage to ourself than we perceive.
Sorrry, just a random rant whilst eating ice cream.
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