Hi all,
I apologize if this in the incorrect subreddit to post on, please let me know and I'll try another subreddit.
Straight to the point I'm a 21M kiss-less virgin that studies S.T.E.M. (dual major on the path to Graduate School, fully done with school around 29/30).
I'm told by virtually all of my friends (21+) and my sisters older friends (26+) that I shouldn't be worried about dating now, as all the women I'm interested in are dating men they won't settle with/ are just having their fun, and when the time comes that I'll be set with someone who appreciates my ambitions and my motivation. Essentially I'm told I'm their safety pick when they realize they finally want to settle down and have a good life and don't want to worry about their future.
I'm kind of sick about being told this, and truth be told it brings up some anxiety about not being good enough for anyone to start with. I'm pretty convinced that of the fact that no one truly wants to be with me as who I am and are just settling with me, and that's disregarding my anxieties about my potential partners former S/O's and such (though once this pandemic is over I'll find a new therapist that can work with me through those sexual anxieties, and might pop over to the r/sex subreddit to see what their input is).
As far as dating goes, I'm on Tinder, Bumble and Hinge and I have had very little luck, even with profile reviews from these respective subreddits. My next step is to have some extra cash lying around and ask a photographer friend to help me out.
Any advice is appreciated, and Thank you in advance for anyone that took their time to read this.
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