Read it again!!!!
I just want to remind anyone who is in a relationship that you shouldn’t have to beg your partner to love you the way you want to be loved. Or to love you in general.
Loving someone is more than just saying it. It’s showing it in how you speak to your partner, how you treat them, how you think about them, how you talk about them when they’re not around, how you prioritize them & their feelings, etc. I’ve been in a few relationships where a man has told me they loved me, but I didn’t feel like it was true.
Where I would frequently question if it was love they felt or something different because the way they treated me didn’t match up with what they said to me. I didn’t realize how bad it was until my current relationship. My boyfriend is not perfect by and means but I know he loves me. I’ve never been insecure and I don’t need to hear it every day but he needs to tell me every day. He isn’t shy to tell me he wants to spend time with me, or sees a future with me. He isn’t afraid to tell me how devastated he’d be if we broke up.
Basically, he isn’t afraid to do and say all the things I do and say to him. To clarify, I’m not insecure. I don’t need a man to feel good about myself or feel like someone needs me. It has nothing to do with ego or pride and everything to with love and partnership.
So this is my reminder to all of you that you deserve to feel loved and to be told how much you’re loved. To have someone love you the way you want/need. To be with someone who doesn’t think being in love makes you weak or vulnerable. And I’m not here to brag, I’ve been in only bad relationships before this where I’ve been torn apart emotionally more times than I can count. Just to tell you that if you think you deserve better, you probably do.
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