Hello Reddit.
I feel like, and I'm sure others can relate, that when it comes to dating/relationships/sex there is a void in my life. It's essentially non existent; my experiences are one drunk kiss, one coffee date, and two girls who expressed interest in me but it couldn't be (once when 13 and another about 6 months ago). This somewhat concerns me because I'm a 25 year old man, turning 26 in about a month, and this area of my life is severely lacking.
I feel that as a person I am ok. I have a job, an education, and even though I am struggling with finances I am making the effort to work full time and study part time again to improve my situation. I am not really fit but my diet is decent so I'm not terribly overweight or anything like that. I am trying to fit more excerise into my schedule though. I have interests and friends, as most people do, and I don't think I have any severe issues socializing.
However when it comes to dating/sex... I am pretty much never seen as an option by women. I'm a friend at best and on an individual level that is ok. I enjoy the friendship and no one owes me anything for being my friend (as it should be).
I have noticed this is a consistent pattern but most days I try not to think about it and focus on life. Some days I do though and I am genuinely confused. Why does it seem like I am never seen in a romantic or sexual light? Am I actually not ok as a person? What am I missing? I feel genuinely lost.
Your feedback/advice is appreciated.
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