To make a long story short she's in grad school, has a full time job, and coaches cheer so she is legitimately busy. However, the first 3 weeks we were involved we hung out almost every other night and talked pretty much every day.
Then 3 weeks ago she canceled a date last minute and said she had a last minute meeting for grad school she forgot about. She said we could hang out later in the week then that fell through too. At this point the texting became extremely sparse.
2 weeks ago I essentially asked if she still wanted to see me and she basically said yes but she's super busy.
1 week ago (after another week of not hanging out and not really talking) I basically asked if she still wanted to see me because I felt like she was distancing herself by not texting me or trying to hangout. She basically said that she would have told me by now if she didn't want to see me but she's just super busy and tired and our lack of communication has nothing to do with me and she isn't trying to distance herself. I asked if she knew when her schedule would be clearing up and she said she had no idea.
This week I texted her yesterday and I've been on delivered since then.
What's the move from here? Do I trust her words which indicate everything is fine or her actions which say she's distancing herself? I get that people get busy but its literally almost been 3 weeks.
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