Hey guys, right now I am going through a very low phase of my life.I was in relationship with this guys since last 4 - 4.5 years. He was my first boyfriend, I haven't dated anyone before him. Actually, he was my tutor, he used to taught me when I was in grade 12. From there, it all started. There were many ups and down in our relationship. I really liked him a lot. Earlier, when we were new in the relationship he used to talk to me but after 1-2 months he got busy in his university's stuff ( he was a university student but at that time he was also my tutor) and this started creating chaos between us. After some time my mother got to know about this and she didn't really liked the idea of me dating him. So she asked me to stop seeing him. I did the same for a month but later on we came back with each other. In my first year of graduation, he didn't like the fact of me hanging out with male friends. I mean sometimes he was fine and some times he was not. He made me run after him for a whole year. I used to cry a lot in front of friends. In 2 year, I thought of breaking up with him, but it didn't went as planned and we came back together. Also he said, he would tell my family that we guys we're dating. At that time, I got scared. After few months, I came to know via my friend that he was just using this as technique for not letting me go, he would never tell my family. Everything was going fine between us. We guys were one of those couples who fight, break up and then get back together. In 2021 new year he made me cry by saying he want to do break up, and after few days, we got back together. It was my birthday month in 2021, I was quarantined in my home because of covid-19, even at that time he didn't wished me at 12am. Also guys, there is one more thing, he never spends money on me. Lol, don't take me as a gold digger or so, but it had been more than 4 years, I had dated him, but he never spend more than 15-20 usd dollars on me. Yeah there were 2 times when we had lunch together but that is all. Last month I got so much fed up, I literally put my thoughts in front of him. He said why I am bringing money in relationship. And then he said he can't really date me because I am out of his league. Here, I just want to clear one thing, I already know about his financial condition, lol, I started dated him when he was just a university student, when he had nothing, I know how hardworking he is, this is what I liked about him and even know I respect him. But I found this kinda rude, because of money is something I am looking, I had not dated you then . (Ps: right now he is in very good company and earning a very descent amount). It has been full one month, I haven't talked to him but today suddenly he mailed me that he wanna talk to me for once. But why now, there were time when I cried for you but then you left me on seen. And he was the one who messaged me that he doesn't want any relations with me. I JUST WANT TO KNOW SHOULD I GO AND DO CHECK ON HIM? I don't want to hurt myself , I have my career, right now I am just a student.
Ps: there are some things that I want to tell you, I am not saying he was a completely bad person and I am the right one. There were some mistakes that I have done. Mistakes means just general things that didn't made him happy. I was very loyal to him and even he was.
Can anyone tell me what should I do, should I talk to him or move on.
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