Story time first. I(19m) am in the military and went home for the holidays. While I was home I hooked up with a girl(19f) I had a think for in high school. Now this is the first time I've actually had sex outside of a relationship. It started going to her house to catch up and hang out and Netflix got turned on then ignored and the story goes on. BUT, the sex wasn't the best part(not that it was bad at all). I had a genuinely good time with her, really enjoyed her company and just talking about life. I ended up staying at her house for the better part of the next day took her out to eat and just connected. We talked for hours and cuddled while eating pizza.
And at last I had to make my way home to pack and leave. We hugged and kissed goodbye "stay safe out there boy" then off I went.
While I was in the car going home I thought about some things she said like "what took this long" meaning us and "It sucks you have to leave so soon." We still talk over snapchat and that sorta thing and I just don't want to bring up a topic that might only be in my head. I have only had relationshios in high school now they've been pretty serious all over a year with both of us working and basicslly living alone. However I'm not sure if im grabbing at thin air.
Is there anyone that has had anything similar? Am I leading her on in a bad way? Should I shrug it as just a hookup or confront her at the expense of loosing one of the few people I talk too?
If you made it this far thank you for reading my rambling and have a nice day/night :)
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