I (35F) have been going on dates with different guys since I broke up with my boyfriend in July. Nothing has materialised into something more serious which is what I ultimately want. I’m very impulsive and also kind of feel what the hell we’re in our 30s, do I really have to do this ‘not sleeping together on the first date’ and ‘not showing too much interest’ stuff at this point. But I haven’t had much luck and it’s really starting to hurt so am trying to be more laid back. I went on a first date Thursday with a guy I pursued on Instagram after learning of him through a mutual friend. I reached out and I asked him on a date after chatting for a week. The conversation was great though I didn’t feel much chemistry. We made out at the bar and I said we could go back to his place if he wanted but he said don’t take this the wrong way but I’d rather take things slower. I really want to wait and see if he asks me out on a second date because I’m so tired of doing all the work. But I also don’t want to wait forever. When someone’s interested how long is a reasonable amount of time for them to ask you out again? For me, I usually try to set things up within a week.
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