So I’ve only known this girl for a month and some things we talked about went south after hanging out and talking so friendly to each other, now she just wants to be friends and nothing more. I accepted this but still I wanted to say how I felt. Basically she says that even though she gave me girlfriend energy on the first and second date as well as whenever we’d FaceTime, and we had only just been friends potentially later on becoming a relationship, she states that she wasn’t ready for one and that two of the requirements would be, should we get there, for marriage and she wanted me to take a hemoglobin blood test (that I thought was for children at first is what I thought she mentioned) so she’s not “wasting her time”. So today I decided to share how I felt during all this, that concerning myself with such things felt rushed, and that I felt led on after she’d mentioned she would do for any reason (in which I should’ve took a step back at that particular moment), I didn’t say any of this at the time that she wanted out of the idea of being in a relationship because for one thing I catch feelings especially with women and I should’ve been more upfront even though I was hurt when she called us off, this is after we agreed to just be friends but I felt like if I didn’t say it then she wouldn’t have understood. Anyway I say it and she, 1, corrects me on the purpose of the blood test and that it was still a part of her standard that if she’s to move into the dating stage then that’s a requirement for her, 2, tells me that it is in fact in her nature that she would lead me on and that some people misinterpret that concept, and 3, sounds annoyed and proceeds to tell me she won’t text me anymore sounding as though I ruined the friendship and she probably hates me at this point. It’s okay if any woman that sees this says I should’ve just left her alone and went on with my life, but I just wanted to explain myself in sort of apologizing that I didn’t take responsibility of the situation. My homie says I did the right thing in doing so and that I dodged a bullet, but what are your thoughts?
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