I'm a person that find weird patterns in things. Most notable thing ive noticed is a pattern in my dating. At least i find a pattern in the men i end up trying to date. Been single for 2 years and attempting to date for almost a year and still no luck.
Ive been seeing a guy for about a month and a few nights ago, while we were just hanging out at his place, we were talking about our past dating history and he revealed that he got out of a 7 month thing with a girl only 2 months ago. Even though he says it wasnt anything serious and he's moved on, I definitely had a red flag in my head and my initial thought was "not again".
Here's the pattern ive noticed. He would be the 4th guy ive attempt to date that just got out of something. I have nothing against dudes that just got out of something but with my track record, the 3 past guys too have also "just got out of something about 2 month ago". These guys all put a lot of energy into "dating" me and i end up liking them a lot and like clock work, 3 months in, they realized that they don't want anything with me. Its like im the rebound girl all the time.
And i see the same pattern with this guy. He's put a lot of energy and time so far. And i maybe im already jinxing it, but i see that it happening with him. Should i talk to him about it or see if it gets past the 3 month mark?
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