So the day after tomorrow I [24M] have a "date" with the girl [20F] I've had a crush on for a long time, we went out once before but she's never had a boyfriend and she saw it as two friends hanging out back then so nothing came of it.
Since then though I actually told her I liked her, she didn't say she liked me back she was like cool to know thanks but since then I've been hitting on her pretty obviously and though she's not flirting back (remember she's never dated anyone before) we are still talking everyday, so I guess I wasn't exactly rejected.
Now, we are good friends and talk online a lot, in person though we see each other at school and we belong to the same friend group but because of that we're never really alone together, so I'm pretty nervous about how to act. Besides the time I told her I liked her, I've never said anything about how I feel to her in person directly.
The reason I call this a "date" is because in her mind I'm sure she is like "He's a friend and I know he likes me so let's see how this feels" if I do right we'll move on and if not she'll hit me with a well timed "It's just that I see you as a friend" or something of the sort, so I have to do everything right.
TL;DR going out with a good friend and a huge crush but we've never been alone together, she knows I like her but she hasn't decided if she likes me so this is make it or break it.
I was thinking of trying to make physical contact but I think grabbing her hand just for the sake of it might put her under too much pressure, maybe just playful pulling her when when go somewhere or something.
Oh, we're going to the movies to watch a movie she loves and I haven't seen.
Please give me good dos and don'ts and things that would make you think "I should definitely give him a chance"
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