(21M) So im pretty introverted at the being of most friendships. And im also antisocial because unfortunately I have not patience for dumb things. Questions, comments, people. Obviously if its because they are joking or we are playing around then its fine but the genuine ones. I dont drink. I dont smoke. And i work an absolute shit ton. Most of the girls i work with unfortunately get shit faced daily (i dont have issues with drinking just not my thing but getting shit faced is a no go) most also all smoke or vape those of which are an automatic no go. I can work with pretty much anything else as a relationship is in a way a compromise. I however haven't had a gf for some time now and until recently having cared but this past year idk what changed but lord i have wanted a gf badly. Ive asked a few girls out that i got along with at work one already had a bf but was flattered still and it wasn't awkward between us till she left for college. Another just straight up didnt reply. And the last one is now my closest friend ive had in a while. Ive tried tinder and bumble but well. Maybe i suck at photos i dont consider myself ugly but im definitely not jaw dropping. But well when you swipe with crappy results it grades on you eventually. I genuinely want a girlfriend thought that i can date take to dinner and go do her hobbies or mine together. Getting it on is of little concern for now as i prefer to know the girl before i even consider that. Ive started changing my life style a bit to help improve my chances like ive started working out to slim up and ive improved my diet and hygiene routine to help clear the little bit of acne i did have up and basically disappear. I no longer go to college unfortunately as i decided it wasnt for me so thats kind of out of the question. Any insight would be great. Thank you in advance
TLDR what are some things to do to get a girlfriend, as what ive tried isnt working.
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