Met a great girl and was having a good time, i decided to have the “what are we conversation” and she dropped a bombshell saying she had known for a couple months that she would be leaving the city in the next 6 months maybe. I asked her what she thought out options were and she couldn’t give me anything. So I told her my feelings and that I would consider a LDR if she could tell me what she wanted. And she couldn’t give me anything I ended it on Thursdays but we agreed that we would talk Monday about it all. Come Monday she asked me what my thoughts where and I said well I really need your thoughts on what she thought was possible since I haven’t had that yet.
She said she wanted to just date for a bit and make a decision closer to the time. This didn’t suit me since I would be fully invested and open to a massive amount of hurt while she would be fully aware she could leave.
She said it was too hard a problem for a “relationship” so early in and wanted to ended it too.
I’m sad about it all and upset. It didn’t seem like she would have ever been fully invested in this relationship.
I just need to vent sorry and plan my recovery.
Any tips?
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