Debating breaking up with girlfriend over her “ friend”
AITA if I break up with my girlfriend over her “friend”
My girlfriend had previously lied to me about hanging out with a guy friend that i wasn’t comfortable with her hanging out with. Instead of asking me about it or inviting me she just went ahead and told me she was hanging out with a different guy that I had no issue with her hanging out with. I had an issue with her hanging out with the guy she lied about because she met him right after her previous relationship ended and she only snap chatted him so she said she would stop to make me feel more comfortable. When she lied about hanging out with him it was their first time hanging out. That was the background on why I don’t completely trust her. There’s this other guy at her job that I don’t feel comfortable with her hanging out with him. She sent him a Photo fully dressed but with her boobs clearly beating pushed up and you can see the bra sticking out of her shirt. He then sent her his address those were the only two things saved in their snapchat messages from that day. we weren’t dating at this time so not the biggest deal but it seems like something may have happened. The next thing saved in the messages from about a month later was just his other address (to his moms house). He sent this the day after she found out the guy she thought she was exclusively hooking up with took a body shot off of another girl. The same day she found out about the body shot she came to my house crying and expressed how she was hurt by this. It was a little suspicious he sends his address the day after she finds out her exclusive friend with benefits wasn’t keeping up his part of the exclusivity. About 3 weeks into us dating we had plans to hangout but she said she was going to go to the skatepark and hangout with him but we would still hang after. She first said we would hangout at 7, then it was 8, then it was 9 and she texted me at 9 saying she was on the way and didn’t get here till 9:47 and it’s about a 20 minute drive. Her reasoning was that she got lost and it was dark. ( She did have a iphone on her with GPs ability) She also brought him to my apartment once and we didn’t really talk much but i got to meet him. She said that she does not want me to come when they hangout because our personality’s don’t mix and it would be weird because we are such different people. AITA if i breakup with her over this even though i don’t know if anything is actually going on? Also want to mention she’s only known this guy for like 4 months.
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