Most men don't have any boundaries.
They let their boss call them in on their days off or take on extra projects that nobody else wanted to do last minute, even if they already had plans or wanted to rest.
They allow their friends, family, co-workers and even strangers disrespect them over and over again without ever standing up for themselves because they fear confrontation or disapproval.
They allow women to show up late to dates, not respond to their texts for days and even weeks at a time, and get told their a "nice guy" who she'd love to be friends with after he pays for their $100 third date dinner.
These men have been stripped of self-respect and dignity, and very few will ever find their way back.
If you're trying to improve your dating life but any of these examples rang true in your own life, I have a hard truth for you: You will never attract a high-quality woman if you lack firm boundaries.
Despite what some might think, women are actually turned on & attracted to men who have firm boundaries.
It shows them that you aren't just some pushover or people pleaser.
You're a man.
A man who speaks up for himself, who protects his values and doesn't settle because he knows what he's worth and what he brings to the table.
Women can SMELL inauthenticity, neediness and a lack of boundaries on a man before he even opens his mouth to speak to her.
And once she does, kiss that interaction goodbye forever.
Become a man with firm boundaries, and not only will your quality of life improve overall, but you're ability to attract high-quality women will increase dramatically.
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