Dating/talking to a girl with mutual interest usually goes like this: Texting all day to texting a few times a day, to texting every 2 days to texting every 3-week, to no long talking. (I'd like to make it clear that it's not purely texting. This is while hanging in-person. I also wonder, how often should i text in-between dates?)
although with this girl, it's different: she started purely as a friend and when I didn't like her romantically, i'd just text her casually for advice/random shit and we'd each not think about it too much.
Ab a month ago, she passively brought up how i left her on read and I mentioned I thought that was normal for us. since then, we've text/snap about once a day-2 days (shes goin through a hard time) and it's pretty casual. She'll apologize how she will be offline a few days which is a sign she feels this obligation to texting me now?
DILEMA: I want *THIS* to work with her this time. How do I prevent her from becoming uninterested from texting to boredom like history shows every time. I'm tired of it. I'm also worried about her thinking I've lost interest if I leave her on read. I'm also a little worried that she'll start leaving me on read simply bc she notices I'm doing it (tryna 1-up me or something).
I don't want her to find a new guy at the college bar or something and by time we get together she'd been ran through or there's competition.
Bigger dilema: she had two loved ones die recently and idk if I should give her space. I don't want her to think I don't care and am leaving. She's specifically said "don't feel bad." and to act as if nothing happened. But i also don't want to bother her. How am I supposed to go talking about regular shit after hearing family died?
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