I’m in love with a woman (47) who is 19 years older than me. We have been together over a year- she has a college-aged son. All my life I pictured (eventually) having a family with children. Being adopted, and not knowing anyone biologically related to me, makes this even more important to me. I never had a plan of when I would have a kid- but just always pictured my life ending up with a wife and kids.
She’s not gonna be having anymore kids at this stage in her life- but I am deeply in love with her. I want to be with her forever; but I am wondering if down the line I will feel as though something’s missing…. And I guess I’m scared about passing up the opportunity for a family. And I can’t help but feel jealous and envious that she’s already gone through all that: had a kid, raised him, had a family of her own, a house etc..
I don’t know what to do, because I don’t wanna pass up the opportunity for a family, but I don’t wanna pass on love either.
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