We (at that time me 26F him 30M) met few years ago on Tinder. He added me everywhere fb, IG, WhatsApp,even Teams (we worked for the same company). We went out couple of times together but it was very casual. Once he invited me to his place (showed me around also bedroom) and we drank hot chocolates talking about some creative projects we can do together. But at that time I was meeting also other guys and he really confused me. He was not making any moves but made sure to always like my IG pictures (on one of them with me he commented ‘I absolutely love this picture’). I was sure he was meeting other women too so I kind of decided not to overthink and definitely not to make first move. Then it kind of flaked out, he moved to the big city. Although he proposed to me few smaller trips and one to sail with him and his friends. But I was afraid to go. He is very very handsome and has lots of girls around. I knew if I let myself into it I will get heartbroken. I’ve been recovering at that time and I wasn’t ready for another heartbreak. I knew I could fall for him especially after he made me playlist (I asked for few examples tracks he likes as he is into music, his dad was dj) and he made me one 6h long soo personal amazingly well composed. I’m still listening to it after all these years. Anyway, I knew he is active on tinder, adding new girls on IG every week, taking some on trips. I didn’t want to be one of them. Got my heart broken and then left alone. I minimised contact and we stayed contacts only liking each other IG posts from time to time. Then he went for 1y trip around the world (working remotely) and was having his best time. He came back and I think I replied to one of his stories where he wrote ‘Have you ever had that feeling that you have everything you wanted?’ So I replied that I’m so happy for him as we talked a lot about our plans and he found best way to match his two biggest dreams. Then we texted a lot, he mentioned he is in his best physical form now, recently bought house is London and we should meet up. So we did. He hit me up if I’m up to going to opera. We went there however after he had plans with his friends and apologised he couldn’t invite me but it was not because he didn’t want. I was not expecting more so I was fine to come back. When in opera we talked a lot in intervals. He invited me to his housewarming, kitesurfing with friends in two months then asked how much holidays I have left and mentioned he will be sailing in Brazil in September. I forgot to mention that year before we were in the same region of Italy and he wanted to meet. I said I’m with my boyfriend and friends and may be difficult. He said he is with his gf and send me pictures of them. I recognised girl he is often travelling with. When in opera he was asking about the guy I was with there and was bragging about dating some posh Russian chicks. Since opera he kept liking all my pictures, also on fb (which is new). So that’s for the background. My question to you all is: Am I paranoid of getting heartbroken? Should I give him chance? Does he seem like a player?
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