So, I (24F) have been single for years. It hasn't bothered me, I've been good on my own. But I started talking to someone, who do know my reddit and there is a chance he'll see this. Hi J! Scroll along! Bye! You never saw this!
I really like him. Like a lot. Like a lot a lot. These feelings did grow very quickly and all but I am very comfortable with us, our conversations are fun and interesting and he does seem to care about my day and remembers stuff I didn't think he would. It's endearing. But my issues is nothing related to him, he's great. Amazing. Relationships have been, well, a lot for me in the past. Full of roller coasters, so I am both happy and sometimes a little terrified with how easy everything is all the time with him now? Is it supposed to be? I feel like he'll probably get bored of me one day lol. I'm not the most fun and outgoing person, and I am comfortable with us having our own lives and that I have him as a bonus to a life I already enjoy as it is. But is it a bad thing that I am not very, clingy I guess the word would be? Sure I do send him messages, pictures or videos of something I see or do during the days sometimes etc even when he's working and not available. And its not as if he has said anything either that he would "want" me to be, idk more?
I guess what I really want to know is that if just being supportive and not always having long conversations about everything is okay, normal even? Or am I just not putting in enough effort? What is effort? I feel like after a couple of years I am just bad at all of these things.
Help a poor soul out will you.
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