I (29M) have been hanging out with my neighbor (26F) like crazy recently. We have been to two different shows where she bought the tickets, coffee "dates", climbing sessions, and bunch of drinks, just us two together. We have never been to each other's place.
Last week, she hit me up asking me if I want this furniture that she is trying to get rid of, she sent pictures and I really liked it so I said I will take it from her. I told her I will pick it up on Friday. I asked her if she would be interested in grabbing drinks after I pick up the furniture. She agreed.
I picked up the furniture, she toured me at her place, I played with her cats, she took pictures of me playing with the cats since she said it looks cute. I brought her to my place, showed her my place, and she played with my dog. After dropping off the furniture, we went out for drinks at this fancy rooftop place. It was so beautiful! While on the rooftop, I was trying to make some skin contact, putting my hand behind her back on top of her chair and subtly brushing my hand over her back. I noticed that she is very receptive. She would also take pictures of the food and drinks and would look for a better angle, while looking for a better angle, she went and got really close to me saying that is the best angle. I told her I don't mind! I was really touchy and was definitely making subtle touches and I noticed that she is being really receptive. However, I did not hold or kiss her hand. One couple at the rooftop kept complimenting how cute we look together and how our outfits looks really good, which I thought was really nice. After the drinks, she offered to get desserts at the restaurant downstairs and we shared a chocolate cake together. We planned on climbing together on Tuesday of this coming week.
We have met through tinder originally about 2 years ago. However, due to covid, nothing really came out of it and we ended up in our own respective relationships. We are both single now and I believe that she is on dating apps, and I am too.
At this point, I just really want to see where is her headspace and whether she is interested in me and maybe we can have something more than just platonic friendship. I came to a conclusion that being friends with her is eventually not going to work out since if she ends up in a relationship, we wouldn't be able to hang out like what we are doing now anyways. I want to communicate to her that I am interested in her and maybe we can try dating. I just do not know how to best approach it. Do I tell her in person? Do I text her? Do I explain her all the things that I have been noticing or do I tell her that I feel like she is giving me signals to follow through?
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