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Saturday, June 11, 2022

Is it weird for a nerdy girl (21F) to ask an older man(30?M) out?

Okay, probably irrelevant but I just got into the card game “Magic the Gathering” for the first time. I was sick of playing video games alone and thought it would be nice to go out and socialize with other people. I’ve been going to my local tabletop store to learn how to play. I’ve only been there twice so far, but the last time I played it was a commander night and this guy I don’t recognize comes to play with my table. He was really well kept, handsome, and was super polite which made me attracted to him. (This is not too typical of people who enjoy this hobby no offense) We all play and talk normally, I didn’t really drop any hints that I was interested in him because I just met the guy. At the end of the night I asked everyone for their discord and got his. I’ve been single for a bit so I was thinking fuck it maybe I’ll flirt a little bit, so I asked him since he played standard magic if he would teach me how to play sometime. He said sure, but I don’t know if he was being nice or not. I then asked him how long he’d been playing and he said almost 20 years and he was 30 and my jaw dropped to the floor. He looked so young, I was under the impression this guy was around my age or a few years older. I told him that I was 21 and he seemed surprised too. Feeling awkward I just said my goodbyes and left. I normally wouldn’t be too shy to ask a guy I’m interested in out, but I’m worried he might think it’s weird that a girl 10 years younger is trying to get with him?? The age difference shocked me but didn’t really turn me off. I was thinking of asking him to hang out after next commander night and get dinner to “teach me how to play” but idk if he’s singe since he’s that old? Would he even be interested now that he knows my age? I’m not looking for a relationship with him right away, I just thought he was attractive and wanted to get to know him better.

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