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Hey everyone, I'm wondering how you all deal with burn out and how you avoid situationships. I normally take breaks from meeting people and dating apps but I find that lately it's been getting worse to deal with. The whole process has been draining and it feels like trying to do a second job (maybe my approach has been wrong)... I have chosen not to go on that many dates and have been extremely selective who I go on dates with. However, I noticed that it has been hindering my chances to meeting new people and getting to know people in general. I want to know what other people are doing and I want to compare notes regarding on the matter.
Another thing I'm curious about, how do you engage in convos on dating apps like hinge? I generally try to start off convos about their profile as a way to getting to know them. Sometimes, I try to make a funny joke based off of their profile info. Trying to find that genuine connection is tough. If we only become friends, I'm happy with that.
Background about myself and patterns that I have been noticing:
- I've been using dating apps since I was 20 and have been trying to meet ppl IRL
- I have had way too many situationships (10+. I stopped counting after 10). Fortunately, I haven't had this problem for over 4 years now. This problem has been fixed because I have been setting a base standard for myself. However, I have seen girls try to put me into a situationship and I generally run immediately after.
- I find that most girls I meet these days have just gotten out of a relationship or got burned hard by fuck boys
- I tend to care way too much about others (this is inherent to my personality. It's not something I can change)
Hope y'all can give me feedback and insight! Thanks! :D
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